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2001 Volunteer Leader Training Guide
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| 1 | Realize that what you see may differ from what others see? | |||
| 2 | Realize that what people choose to say about a situation is their abbreviated version? | |||
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Avoid labeling and using demanding words that can destroy a person’s self-esteem? |
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| 4 | Phrase your thoughts in "I" messages that describe how you feel about the situation? | |||
| 5 | Avoid terms that imply black or white, such as always or never? | |||
| 6 | Recognize that some of your words may be misinterpreted? | |||
| 7 | Acknowledge that your feelings and emotions can affect what you hear, see and say? | |||
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Seek to clarify your message by asking for a demonstration of understanding? |
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| 9 | Ask for feedback and clarification when in doubt about the other person’s meaning? | |||
| 10 | Accept correction when it is obvious that you’ve been wrong? | |||
| 11 | Tune into body language that might indicate misunderstanding? | |||
| 12 | Avoid exaggeration and evaluation and pursue accurate understanding? | |||
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60 is a perfect score. Less than 40 indicates that you could use some work in the area of communication skills.
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